Grief Support Reference List

The following is a list of area support groups, resources and grief support websites. Please contact us for additional information or referrals.

Hospice Support Group
Good Samaritan Hospital Hospice
Understanding Grief, Helping Yourself Heal
This is a support group that is sponsored by Good Samaritan Hospice.  Kim Luttrell, LCSW.  Good Samaritan Hospice will facilitate the group.  Please call Kim Luttrell or Marris Bentley with any questions.  This group is free and open to all who have suffered the loss of a loved one. 

Topics will include:

  • Understanding Grief and its Phases

  • Coping through the Holidays

  • Alone vs. Loneliness

  • Spirituality of Grief

AseraCare Hospice Grief Support Group
Helping Ourselves as We Grieve
Grieving the loss of a loved one or a friend can be one of the most difficult times in our lives.  Understanding our grief and connecting with others who are grieving can help ease our pain, and lead us to finding comfort in grief.  This 5-week support group will provide information on healthy and normal grieving and provide an opportunity to share our grief with others. 

There is no cost for this group.  Trained facilitators will lead the group and provide educational material on related topics.  There will be an opportunity for group members to reconnect in a follow up meeting, after the 4-week program is completed. 

Topics will include:

  • “I’m not going crazy, I’m Grieving” -- Review grieving as normal and healthy part of living.

  • Tidal Waves of Pain -- Memories, feelings, thoughts, and behaviors e experience as we grieve

  • Things Get Tricky When We are Grieving -- Exploring the unique challenges group participants faced in their grief

  • Rediscovering Old Strengths and Finding New Ones -- Review of coping skills and personal strengths that help us through our grief

The group will meet at:
       AseraCare Hospice
       527 East 25th Street, Suite 4
       Kearney, NE 
To register call Pat or Laura at 308-698-0580 or 1-888-273-3309

Camp Bear
A day long "camp" for children who have experienced the death of a loved one.  Call Kim Luttrell at 865-7090 for more information. 
 
Eva Nickel-Drabek
Offers individual grief counseling for those in need.  She can be reached at 234-6029. 
 
Grief Share
A special weekly seminar and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. The group meets on Mondays from 7:30 to 9:30 P.M. at the First Lutheran Church in Kearney. Contact Connie Stover at 237-5544.

Starting Over Single
A support group for those who have started over single due to the death of a spouse. It is bible based and meets at the Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Kearney the second and fourth Sundays of each month. Phone 237-2944.

Children's Bereavement
A support group that meets once or twice a year. This group is open to the public and there is no cost. Kim Olson is the contact person at Good Samaritan Hospital, 865-7090.

Compassionate Friends
You can contact Nancy Sinsel (832-1084) or Judy Anderson (832-1874) in Minden to arrange a one-on-one or a group meeting.

Lighthouse Point Counseling Center
Located at 2315 West 39th Street in Kearney. They offer individual grief counseling for those in need. Another support group is Families in Crisis that meets twice a year, in the spring and the fall. Dr. Paul Welter moderates these groups along with staff at the counseling center. Phone 237-0408.

Spice
Serving People in Crisis Everyday, organized for widowed people. It is associated with the First United Methodist Church and it meets the last Tuesday of each month at 7:30 p.m. You can call the church office at 237-3158 or contact Loretta Metcalf at 234-9747.

Mourning Tips

1.  A nurturing supportive social network is needed.  Loneliness increases the risk of illness and is common for a person who is mourning.  It is important to stay in touch with friends and relatives at this time.  Participation in a self-help group may also be beneficial. 

2.  Adequate Nutrition is Necessary.  A weight gain or loss of more than 25 pounds may make one more likely to have physiological or emotional problems.  Daily portions of food from each of the basic food groups are essential. 

3.  Adequate Fluid Intake is Essential.  Fluids are necessary to eliminate body wastes and to maintain the proper electrolyte balance.  Feelings of tightness in the throat or diminished appetite could be from lack of fluids.  Beverages with caffeine, such as coffee, tea or colas, and alcoholic beverages cause further dehydration and should be limited.  There is nothing quite as healthy for you as a glass of water. 

4.  Daily Exercise is Important.  Muscles must be kept in good tone in order to properly serve our bodies.  Walking vigorously for about 20 minutes a day, various stretching exercises and general activity are going to benefit you.  Chemicals in the brain, which cause feelings of alertness and happiness, are stimulated by exercise. 

5.  Daily Rest.  To avoid radically altering your sleep cycle and sleeping more in the day, it is important to continue with your same rest patterns.  If your are unable to sleep throughout the night, an hour's rest at mid-day may be necessary.  If you are experiencing great difficulty with sleep, you might try eating a small amount of food high in carbohydrates about 90 minutes before bedtime.  A good breakfast high in proteins is a good way to start off the day and gives you a good boost.  If this change does not aid your ability to sleep, you should consult your physician.  The use of any medications should be supervised.  


Grief Support Websites
  www.counselingforloss.com
  www.webhealing.com
  www.grief-recovery.com
  www.death-dying.com
  www.heartlight.org
 
 

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